I don’t think you realize your attitude towards ME

She then told me that she was my step daughter’s mother. As if I did not know but there is something I did not know at this time. It was the importance she felt being the mother of this child. How her mother status would trump anything she did to her own daughter or anyone else. It actually sounds like #trump if you think about it maybe they share the same mental illness.

We were trying to help my step daughter thrive at school so any time we said she needed to be doing extra studying was a personal attack on the mom and perceived as us trying to control how much time she had with her. Today my step daughter now lives full time with her mother. She will be 18 in August and has fallen so behind in school that she will not be graduating on time. Every fear I had then has happened. We were helpless and did not realize it. You cannot fight this force of #parentalienation. My heart goes out to all parents who have a former partner that intentionally tries to destroy their relationships. It is the symptom of a wounded not fully developed emotional brain. #TRAUMA #EDUCATE

From: Husband’s New Wife 

To: Husband’s Ex-Wife; Husband

Sent: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 1:58 PM

Subject: Re: health coverage

We indicated that the insurance would start the first of next month, if you reread the email we sent this was communicated to you. Why would you cancel her insurance knowing that it did not start until the first of next month? 

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife

To: Husband’s New Wife

Sent: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 2:05 PM

Subject: RE: health coverage

when you transfer with cobra its retroactif and you have a grace period before you enroll 

he last job ended on the 31 dec 

From: Husband’s New Wife

To: Husband’s Ex-Wife 

Cc: Husband

Sent: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 10:29 AM

Subject: Social Studies and Science Audio Text Books

It is critical for her success in these classes to have the audio text books. she says they are at your house in her. She has a test we are studying for tonight. It would be really helpful if you could participate in finding them and getting them to us today. They will be coming by sometime between 4:30 and 5pm today to get them. Thanks in advance for the cooperation.

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife

To: Husband’s New Wife 

Cc: Husband

Sent: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 2:09 PM

Subject: RE: Social Studies and Science Audio Text Books

I understand .

I will look again 

will let you know if i find it last time i saw it was in her red bag .

Husband’s Ex-Wife

From: Husband’s New Wife

To: Husband’s Ex-Wife

Cc: Husband

Sent: Wednesday, January 14, 2015 2:19 PM

Subject: Re: Social Studies and Science Audio Text Books

We found them, we tore her room apart and she had them stuffed deep inside one of her drawers. 

From: Husband’s New Wife

Date: Mon, Jan 19, 2015 at 3:26 PM

Subject: Social Studies Make Up Tests

To: Teacher 

Cc: Husband 

Hi Teacher- 

There are two tests that she will need to make up that we were hoping you could get her help on. Chapter 4 Section 3 and possible redo Section 4. 

Our guess is that she will make up these tests with you anyhow so we thought we would start with you.

Thanks,

Her Dad and Stepmom

On Tue, Feb 17, 2015 at 4:41 PM, Amy Gorski <amycgorski@gmail.com> wrote:

From: Husband’s New Wife 

Date: Wed, Feb 18, 2015 at 4:41PM

Subject: Update 4/24 – 5/10

To: Husband’s Ex-Wife

Cc: Husband

We are going to be out of town for these dates, so she will need to be at your house. She can’t miss this much school. Trusting this is not an issue. 

Also, on Wednesday’s it would be best if she got her homework done before you picked her up at Prime Time. 

Husband and his new wife 

On Feb 17, 2015, at 4:43 PM, Amy Gorski <amycgorski@gmail.com> wrote:

4pm is the time she is done with tutors. This resource really helps her. Dinner with you this night would be better. Then she can just come back wash up and go to bed.

On Tue, Feb 17, 2015 at 5:48 PM, Husband Ex-Wife wrote:

No problem keeping her while you are going .

Got the dates

Regarding wednesday i will pick her up at 210 so we can spend more time . 

She can do her homework here and will return her after dinner .

I know it help her to have the help at prime time but this is just once a week and will make sure she does what she needs to do here.

Husband’s Ex-Wife 

On Feb 17, 2015, at 7:34 PM, Amy Gorski <amycgorski@gmail.com> wrote:

Also, she has a test, the few times you had her she had tests and she did NOT study and got very poor grades D. 

Tomorrow Ms. Carlson is staying late to help her study for her social studies. 

Your choice is to take or after prime time or not at all tomorrow. 

Let us know so we know.

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife 

Date: Wed, Feb 18, 2015 at 10:33 AM

Subject: Re: Update 4/24 – 5/10

To: Husband’s New Wife 

Cc: Husband

Husband’s New Wife ,

I dont think you realize your attidude towards me . Im her mom and will have her from afterschool.you are in no place to decide when and how much we spend time together .

She doesnt not only have bad gradeswhen she comes on wednesday to spend time with me .i am keeping trackof that just like you guys.also i always made sure she was back to your house early enought

I understand you want her to stay for the tutor at prime time but i know there are only there certain days . By the way dont really understand the need for you guys to leave her there everyday when jonathan is not working . Just saying that becouse she complained about it .from 725 to 4 pm are long days .if something is schedule today i will pick her up at 4 but we need to go back to wednesday after school pick up next week. I hope you understand that we need that time together and will make sure she does home work and bring her back in time to get ready for bed

we agreed of everywednesday ,everyother weekend and holidays . 

If wednesday is when the tutor is available 

We can maybe switch to another day in the futur . Wednesday are good couse of once a month its a half day and also is in the middle of the week.

Husband’s Ex-Wife 

From: Husband’s New Wife 

Date: Wed, Feb 18, 2015 at 2:19 PM

Subject: Re: Update 4/24 – 5/10

To: Husband’s Ex-Wife 

Cc: Husband

Thanks for confirming the future dates while we will be out of town. 

The teacher is staying special today for her to study for a social studies test tomorrow. She has a little charge in her phone to call you after school to confirm. 

I think the best thing to do is touch base with her weekly on what her school load is that week and whether or not she has a test/quiz/homework that she needs help on. 

Engaging further into your email is unproductive. 

#communication #domesticviolence #coparent #stepmom #stepparent #strangulation #attack #strangulationprevention #educate #help #thrive #heal #ptsd #tbi #violence #familyviolence #mentalhealthawareness

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