Fro the brief time we used #familywizard…
I actually forgot about most of this, wow. She used to get all pissy about custody always. Always throwing in it’s my right! She always was telling the kids the my alternative natural lifestyle was making them sick.
12/13/2010
Big brother was asked to go over to his mothers with absolutely no notice to me whatsoever. My ex-wife planned everything through big brother without letting our family know of the plans so we could plan. Then we were told that he could not come back or be driven home because he was SO SICK with a “fever” that was 98.6 degrees. Again, no notice and everything goes through the kids.
Husband
12/12/2010
No
12/13/2010
he didnt didnt come to my house on the 13 but the 12 he ask me to come over on sunday for few hours . he wasnt feeling good and he was feeling ill .. he had a low fever and asked me to rest ..he told me papa wants me back at 8 pm and i said fine ..he just needed to rest.. we will give you 48 hours notice next time.. i still have half custody of him .so i think that you should not make any problem when he wants to see me ..can you please correct calendar with the right day..thanks
Husband’s Ex-Wife
12/13/2010
No
12/13/2010
Big Brother stayed home from school today; we took him to Dr. Walls to be tested for whooping cough as we were instructed from Dr. Walls the last time we brought our new baby daughter in to use precaution with a newborn in the house and the epidemic in California going on. He slept all day.
Husband
12/13/2010
No
12/13/2010
Ex-Wife did not notify me that our daughter was going to be at Stella Maris, setting up for the holiday float. Please, in the future keep me abreast of all the kid’s activities.
Husband
12/13/2010
No
12/11/2010
In response to threats to take me to court to fight for custody over our 15 year old son who is of is of sufficient age, maturity and capacity to reason so as to form an intelligent preference of where he wants to live: California Custody If both parents are equally acceptable in the opinion of the court, the request of a teenager would be given serious consideration. Check out Family Law Code 3042. (a) If a child is of sufficient age and capacity to reason to form an intelligent preference as to custody, the court shall consider and give due weight to the wishes of the child in making an order granting or modifying custody. (b) In addition to the requirements of subdivision (b) of Section 765 of the Evidence Code, the court shall control the examination of the child witness to protect the best interests of the child. The court may preclude the calling of the child as a witness where the best interests of the child so dictate and may provide alternative means of obtaining information regarding the child’s preferences. The Family Court judge would decide if the child(ren) are mature enough to determine why they wish to live with the parent named. Age is less of a factor, then the ability of the child to voice a valid opinion other than they simply “want to do it.”
Husband
12/11/2010
No
01/22/2011
Big brother told my new wife today that his Mom said that she feels that Amy’s “alternative natural” lifestyle is making him sick. That he needs an immunity shot and more vaccines. It’s getting very tiresome hearing how negative you speak of my new wife to my children. In the long run, it only hurts her because they love and respect their stepmom very much because she takes such great care of them.
Husband
1/22/2011
Yes
01/22/2011
Although it was in the past, it must be noted that my ex-wife did not show up for our daughter’s first SST meeting with five teachers at Stella Maris in October to evaluate her learning needs.
Husband
1/22/2011
Yes
12/12/2010
Big brother at his Mom’s….an event in the past cannot be created.
Husband
12/13/2010
Yes
12/26/2010
While our daughter was with us during the Holiday break, she told us after speaking to her mother on my new wife’s cell phone that her Momma always has an excuse when she wants to call us and won’t let her call. Either we are busy with the baby, or not home or sleeping. My ex-wife has not once called us to find out if we are available and just misinforms our daughter that we are unavailable. Like my ex-wife tells her we also tell her that we are always available. However, we always let her call, and apparently, she is restrained from being able to call us.
Husband
12/26/2010
No
12/14/2010
Big Brother at his Mom’s…. an event in the past cannot be created.
Husband
12/13/2010
No
12/14/2010
Big Brother 16 years old has been given an ID/Password to this website from his mother, so he now has visibility to all our discussion, agreements and disagreements between us that he, in my opinion, should not be exposed to. I disagree entirely, and it was not discussed in advance. This again puts him in the middle and is not in the best interest of his emotional well being.
Husband
12/13/2010
No
12/14/2010
Last night, we called my ex-wife from big brother’s phone (because she rarely answers my calls) to speak to our daughter to tell her that I dropped off the wrong box of cookies from the party she went on Sunday with my new wife. We knew she’d be really excited if she got the box that my new wife’s boss said she could pick out for her Momma’s house. Ex-wife did not answer. We called the house phone, and big brother asked if we could speak to his little sister. Ex-wife said she was in bed sleeping. I went to the school today to drop the box of cookies off, and cough syrup at the office and I stopped to see our daughter. She told me that she asked her Mom if she could call me before bed. She was told by her Mom that she could not because I was sleeping. When she said to me that, I told her that I actually did try to call her last night too! When she asked what time, I said at 8 o’clock. She said, so you were not sleeping as Momma said? I said no, I was not sleeping. So I asked her if she was sleeping at 8 o’clock and she said no Papa I was not sleeping really yet either. I told her that her Mom lied and I was awake. That her Mom never called me to check and that it doesn’t matter when or what time of the day it is she can always call me whenever she needs to hear my voice for comfort whether I am asleep or not. So that is what happened. It is very frustrating to hear that our daughter wanted to reach out to me last night and could not. I am always available to my kids and need to know that they have the freedom to reach out if they need to feel connected to me. At my house every time that she has asked to call her Mom she’s always been allowed and was given access either through me, my son, or my new wife.
Husband
12/14/2010
No
12/15/2010
Big brother is back in school today after being homesick for two days. He’ll be catching up on classwork and homework for the next couple days.
Husband
12/15/2010
No
12/15/2010
No response from my ex-wife on this email or subject matter. On Tue, 12/14/10 at 02:36 PM, Husband wrote: To: Husband’s Ex-Wife Subject: RE: correction Message: Being accused of making conflicts by trying to minimize your time with our son and his sibling, your frequent reminder of your legal right as a parent and being threatened by custody talk through these emails is very insulting, tiresome, not warranted and/or appreciated so please stop. Part of the reason why it has been so difficult for you to have time with him is the way you are going about it…through him a 16-year-old.
Husband
12/15/2010
No
01/07/2011
Our daughter has pin-worms. The whole family needs to be treated both sides ours and yours. We’ve looked up some information www.getridofthings.com/get-rid-of-pinworms.htm We are treating myself, our daughter and big brother tomorrow morning. My new wife and the baby have to wait to speak to a doctor first. Our daughter’s hygiene needs to be our primary concern again. She must change her underwear every day and be reminded to wash her hands frequently, especially after school and before eating.
Husband
1/6/2011
No
01/26/2011
It’s been brought to my attention that my ex-wife continues to speak negatively of my new wife to the kids. The newest is that her natural lifestyle and/or beliefs are making Julian sick and weakening his immune system. That he needs an immunity shot and/or vaccines. Today she texted her asking, “is our son eating well, does he eat meat?”… Really?? Are you kidding me??? Do I ask you what’s on your dinner table?? You are absolutely ridiculous to ASSume that he doesn’t eat well at my home. So you think because he gets the Flu (from your home from Jose!) that he may be anemic??? What doctor thinks that getting the flu requires a full blood panel to check for anemia.
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