Constant Harrassment?

Date: Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:56:26 -0800
From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
Subject: Re: schedule for next week
To: Husband’s New Wife

yes big brother and I were able to connect…thank you for telling him… keep a eye if she doesn’t have a fever and it comes and go it might be she was tired or maybe a little wanting attention..she is a good act rice and like you said such a special little girl lots of hard time for since she is 18 months with the separation etc…if she is not hungry and very calm she might be getting something …make sure she drinks lots of water…i will send you the book info next..big kisses and I’m really happy my ex-husband found you somebody like you…husband’s ex wife

Date: Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:22:40 -0800
From: Husband’s New Wife
Subject: Question:)
To: Husband’s Ex-Wife

Hi Husband’s Ex-Wife,
Merry (almost) Christmas! Hope you are doing good. Did you guys go ice skating? I attached some photos for her to see the snow where I am at in Chicago it’s a white Christmas here I love it!

I talked to my husband and he expressed that he really wanted to see the kids as soon as he gets home. He arrives the 23rd and was hoping to see them Christmas Eve and have them Christmas Day? He is missing home badly and is super eager to see the kids. You might already have plans but wanted to give you a heads up before he gets in town in case there is some rearranging that can happen so he can have them for Christmas morning especially. He is feeling like he missed out on the whole Holiday sadly being gone for so long.
Let me know what you think.
Big hugs,
Husband’s New Wife

Date: Wed, 23 Dec 2009 1:14:30 -0800
From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
Subject: Question:)
To: Husband’s New Wife

hi husband’s new wife…the snow looks beautiful…the kids are having a great christmass break espacialy our girl she get to play all day with anew friend visiting next door…we are going to ice skate tonight in corona…that will be fun and will put all of us in the christmass mood!!! im sure…regarding my ex-husband sure he misses the kids a lot. i spoke to big brother and we are willing to change things he can can come get them on christmass eve after dinner maybe for dessert time the kids will bevery happy about that and we will do our little christmass morning tomorrow morning sow they can enjoy their gift all day . i think this is a good solution for all…merry christmass to you enjoy your family…big kisses husband’s ex-wife

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
Date: Jan 7, 2010 1:28 PM
Subject: february kids
To: My Husband

hi ,the first week of february we have the kids normaly .can you take care of them starting the thursday night and have them 3 days early . we are going away with my new husband’s parents from the 5th to the 12 .thanks ex-wife….

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
Date: Jan 22, 2010 7:34 AM
Subject: kids
To: My Husband

hi, big brother will got to your place after school today. can you ask your new wife to bring big brother back the latest at 10 00..couse we have plans to go to mount laguna for some fun in the snow and filming..thank you have fun tonight…
next week is a normal week for you they go back at your house on monday.
for next week we will get them back on monday the normal way but they will go back to your house on thursday after school cause we leave very earlie in the morning on friday…
we will be out of town from the 5 to the 12….

Date: Fri, 22 Jan 2010 15:38:54 -0800
From:Husband’s New Wife
Subject: Re: kids
To: Husband’s Ex-Wife

Hi Husband’s Ex-Wife!
Hope you guys are enjoying time with your new husband’s parents. I’ll be sure to get big brother back by 10:30 tomorrow he’s excited for the snow. My husband is driving back form LA (horrible weather and traffic) so he asked me to send a note letting you guys know that if you wanted we could keep the kids all the way through rather than have a short week the first week of February. So they’d be with us Monday 1/25 to Monday after school 2/15. Just so you know it’s an option but you might have somethings planned already? We thought it might be easier for her too.

Hope you guys are weathering the storms, my place flooded badly so it’s been a lot of work especially alone!
Talk soon-
Husband’s New Wife

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
To: Husband’s New Wife
Sent: Mon, January 25, 2010 4:23:34 PM
Subject: RE: kids

hi husband’s new wife sorry you had that big wet mess to deal with, hope everything is better now and all sunny and dry…we ve been sow busy here with my husband’s parents in town this is the first moment of solitude i had for a while…they took our son for the night … i think it will be too long for me and the kids not to see each other that long sow lets leave it at that we will get them back on monday the 1st to the 4…thank you for offering but also the parents of my new husband wont see them when we come back they are leaving back to portugal when we come back from our little trip….big kisses husband’s ex-wife

Date: Tue, 26 Jan 2010 4:30:54 -0800
From: Husband’s New Wife
Subject: Re: kids
To: Husband’s Ex-Wife
CC: Husband

Great, I figured as much but wanted to let you know it was an option just in case. Enjoy your time and your little trip coming up! Let me know if anything comes up and you need some extra help with anything. My Husband clued me in about her problems down there also poor baby so we are watching out for her.

My place is drying and hopefully in a week or so I can get back in but for now I am technically homeless 🙂 she is very excited that I have to spend every night over by your ex-husband she’s so sweet.
Best to your new husband and son. Talk soon.
xoxo-Husband’s New Wife

Date: Mon, 22 Feb 2010 4:30:54 -0800
From: Husband
Subject: Daughter
To: Husband’s Ex-Wife
CC: Husband’s New Wife

Dear Husband’s Ex-Wife,

I wanted to write to you in hopes we can get on the same page because I believe we both walked away frustrated yesterday after getting off the phone abruptly. I sense that you most likely felt judged when I was expressing myself about not being informed when you took her to the hospital and I apologize for this. I can see now after talking to your new husband that the situation really was not an emergency so my reaction felt out of line to you considering that everything was okay. I recognize that when anyone feels judged communication breaks down and we both walk away with our needs unmet.

When I found out about the hospital visit through I immediately felt helpless because I could not reassure her that everything was going to be okay which undermines me as a Father nor did I have the opportunity to comfort her while it was happening because nobody informed me what was happening and this made me feel sad as well. I also felt for her because it was a huge responsibility for a 7yr to explain to her father what happened.

My expectation was that this type of information would come from you or your new husband while it was happening regardless of the severity or time of day. I am certain that if this happened while the kids were with my new wife and I your expectation would be the same as mine to be involved immediately while it was happening.

I know from your new husband that it’s how I expressed my concern that is the issue. I hope that you can consider how I might have felt to understand why I would react the way I did. In the future I will try to express myself better because at the end of the day all that matters is that our daughter is okay.

Ex-Husband

Date: Mon, 22 Feb 2010 10:41:54 -0800
From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
Subject: Step-Daughter
To: Husband

i was writing to you in the same time…weird…

Date: Tue, 09 Mar 2010 10:41:54 -0800
From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
Subject: SETELED IN YOUR NEW HOME
To: Husband’s New Wife
CC: Husband

HI ,I WASNT SURE IF YOU GUYS ARE READY FOR HER TONIGHT YET? AND ALSO DO I NEED TO BRING BIG BROTHER STUFF TODAY…LET ME KNOW SHE IS VERY EXCITED FOR HER OWN ROOM !!!! I TOLD HER BIG BROTHER WAS HELPING YESTERDAY TO SET IT UP…ALL MY BEST WISHES IN YOUR NEW HOME…HUSBAND’S EX-WIFE. I NEED THE ADRESSE AND ALSO IS IT POSSIBLE TO LEAVE THE KIDS STUFF IN THE FRONT OF DOOR OR IS IT EYE CATCHING???

Date: Tue, 09 Mar 2010 10:41:54 -0800
From: Husband’s New Wife
Subject: SETELED IN YOUR NEW HOME
To: Husband’s Ex-Wife
CC: Husband

Hi there-

We are getting there but need one more night for her as her bed isn’t up yet. My husband has had a bunch of stuff to handle at the old apartment today.

Adress is XXXX La Jolla Blvd north of la jolla and pearl. You are going to have call us it’s gated so you can’t to the front door.

Thanks for all the good wishes it’s very exciting! Say hi to my step daughter 🙂
Husband’s New Wife

From: Husband’s Ex-Wife
To: Husband’s New Wife;Husband
Sent: Wed, March 24, 2010 7:59:02 AM
Subject: FW: Thursday, March 25 Mandatory Meeting

hello…hope the dentist went fine…i need to know if i have to bring her vest or not??? did you fine the old one…thank you for letting me know…husband’s ex-wife

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