I did not pick up on the !!! emphasis she started putting on certain little things. I ignored them. She was getting irritated at little things in our communication, and I never gave them notice. […]
Strangled In La Jolla
My journey from a life threatening strangulation attack back to vibrant wellness and all the messiness in between. Join me to help make strangulation a felony domestic violence or not and get step-parents viewed as family by law. I was the stepmom Domestic Violence Laws in California did not protect me.
Police Photos 04.12.15
She told the police that she was punched repeatedly in the chest but yet there is no mark on her chest. She was on her knees with the top of her foot grinding into the […]
p.s… lets get together for new baby talk…said the ex-wife
I should have realized immediately her over interest in my pregnancy was a bad sign, I was completely ignorant to the idea that she was obsessing over everything. My effort to help was sorely misunderstood. […]
Constant Harrassment?
Date: Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:56:26 -0800 From: Husband’s Ex-Wife Subject: Re: schedule for next week To: Husband’s New Wife yes big brother and I were able to connect…thank you for telling him… keep a […]
Strangulation can cause Traumatic Brain Injuries
Non-fatal strangulations survivors have long roads to recovery. It impacts all relationships we have. The people in our lives do not always remember we have brain trauma that changes how we interact.
YOGA = HEALING
Yoga has been a part of my life since high school. I remember practicing in the early morning before school. Today I practice in the early morning before work. I am the same in a […]
Big Kiss-Your Husband’s Ex-Wife
I have journaled my whole life, I’ve kept every email I have ever sent to the Bio Mom/My Strangler because I felt it important to have reference and truth.
Meet my Boobs
A year after divorce at 31 I got my boobs done. My mom told me not to. I did not listen. My best friend just told me I was so stubborn there was no telling […]
Trauma can be a Gift
It was four years ago today. We had not realized how fragile she was having partially witnessed her mother’s violence. I remember laying on the ground while on the phone with 911. I was on […]
Don’t Panic during a Panic Attack!
It came on fast, they all did, all 88 of them. Every day for almost three months after I was nearly strangled to death by someone 70 pounds and 1 almost a foot taller. I […]
